Is marriage necessary?

it is very important part of life marriage .we always need a companion with whom we can share aur feelings .it is life life always moves on two wheels so i think it is really very important
 
yes. marriage is an institution very sacred and powerful its useless to question its importance. there comes a time when you need a steady suppot to lean on and you always want to come at the end of the day. to home where you know someone is waiting for you.
but it sure comes with terms and conditions. and its a bit scary idea for a wild and free spirit(like me)!! hey but face it who in this world can stand alone and remain strong for wholelife everyone suffers from setbacks evry now and then so u need a partner they say by your side when your dreams come true and even when they don't..
but respect and patience are two words to be kept in mind and heart always. if u have the respect for the person and the relationship patience follows..
okies even i got to know my views on this.. hehehh thx.\/ & L..
 
If you love somebody and want to spend life with him/her then i think u can marry.but then u have to really really really love that person which is rare...........
 
I Think marriage is the greatest thing that can happen to a person if it fits well. It can be
a nightmare it it doesn't.
 
Marriages are a social necessity and the ultimate culmination of 2 minds, bodies and souls.Its "the" commitment which drives an individual, a family, a society and so on.
I feel man remains a "boy" until he gets married and realized the importance and responsibilities that come along with it.
 
melroy88 said:
What does marriage mean to you? Is it a formality, a blessing or a curse? Tell us how you feel about it; is living-in no different from marriage, or do you think one works better than the other?
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Yes marriage is no doubt necessary and an important part of life...
The culmination of a relationship between a couple should end or rather begin with marriage...

marriage is a form or expression of love to your partner that you will be ever faithful and dedicated to the other till the end....
 
Marriage is a union of 2 bodies and souls. Marriage is a necessity and the pillar on which an individual matures into an adult thereby adding value to himself and the society as a whole. For both - men and women, its the journey towards achieving maturity.
 
I dont think marraige is necessary.
You love some one.. u just love them ..
These marraaiges are only for society..
 
Hi all,

Marriage is an institution that has been set up in order to make the society to follow certain norms. Everything has its own pro's and con's .... but that mean that we can disapprove or approve it ..... its upto an individual to think that .... to me ... marriage is a perfect bondage between two individuals ... who need both emotional and physical co-existence... one without the other .. is something unacceptable .......



Thanks and Regards
Kiran
 
It must be admitted that when a man can follow advice of this nature it will generally be the better for him in the end; but we are dealing with human instincts and human passions that often go beyond control. The fact that we are for-bidden marriage because of economic or other reasons does not necessarily take us away from all associations with the opposite sex. And with a virile man such companionship is bound at times to arouse passions and desires that seek satisfaction. What is a man to do under such circumstances? The problem is indeed hard' to solve. The question involved in a situation of this kind is largely as to whether or not the man will be harmed through attempting to lead a continent life, or whether it would pay to incur the risks of disease that attend deviations from the paths of moral rectitude. In other words, are we to follow the usual policy and lay down a definite rule of strict continence to the men who cry for help under such circumstances?

The problem in every instance is varied and individual in nature. As previously stated some men can live a continent life for a great number of years without serious injury to their capacities, mental, moral, or physical. Other men, however, are so constituted that the question of a sexual mate assumes a dominating character that is actually terrifying. Such men will find a continent life practically impossible and, with their particular natures, if they possessed the determination to adhere to a regime of this character it would, perhaps, be productive of injury —though perhaps not more than a certain slight decline in vitality. But under such circumstances we are dealing with what might be termed impossibilities. Such men will not remain continent when temptation comes their way. What are we to advise in such cases?

Where the demand for the associations of marriage are so dominating in character, the situation, regardless of all other conditions, demands marriage. And it is unquestionably better that the marriage should conform to the legal and conventional standards. No matter how you may try to avoid other associations and responsibilities that your instincts crave, you cannot avoid the very definite commands of your cravings for a sexual mate.

The man who finds himself possessed of these imperative sexual demands, if allowed freely to associate with members of the opposite sex, will surely find a mate. There is no question about that. The only way a man of this kind can remain continent is to live the life of a hermit, or not meet enough of the opposite sex, and even under such circumstances there is a strong possibility or even probability of his acquiring secret sexual vices that are fearfully destructive in nature. Therefore, although you may be impressed with the idea that you are economically or otherwise so situated that marriage is impossible, yet when you find yourself mated, you should so arrange your affairs that the legal responsibilities associated therewith can be satisfactorily assumed. There is really no other solution of this problem that is tolerable or possible.
 
Marriage is a social institution. It is not unison of two individuals, but a unison of two families.This has been a part of society since when it can not be dated.

But in the recent times, we have seen rise of live-in relationships where two individuals live together, share lives and yet are not married. The difference between the two forms is just "SOCIETY". One is acceptable to mass while the other is not. And each one of us is a part of society so we are bound to follow what is dictated by this mass of people and those who don't are being termed as anti-social elements who try to molest the decorum of the society.

So talking in a very conservative sense, marriage is important. But if we see the way around, marriage is the sole base of society. It is because of this marriage, two families unite and hence the circle of relationships expand. Its because of marriage that the society and human race has continued, both biologically and socially.

Marriage hence is necessary.

Regards

Magician
 
I feel marriage is a piece of paper that only suffices to fulfil social obligations within a society. it is not relevant and sometimes forced upon by the society.
 
yes indeed ... marraige and live in relation are 2 different things.... live in relation is an association of 2 humanas whereas marriage is an association of 2 families....... Indian culture which is based on this principle of families (which has a lot of advantages than of nuclear families) this foundation of marriage is extremely important... There is a very wrong understanding that with marriage u loose your freedom and with livein u dont.... in either of the cases it all depends on your understanding levels with the person u choose

Regards
 
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