marriage, in my view, is most useful when one spouse is wanting to gain residency in another country. and the resident spouse is willing and understanding of this.
other than that, marriage is not required for birthing of babies, opening joint bank accounts, buying property jointly nor behaving as a loving, harmonious, joyful couple.
besides, when signing the marriage CONTRACT, where are the terms and conditions? where is the equal consideration? where is the disclosure? and where is the declaration that each party is of sound mind and free of will upon signing? (i.e. no coercion nor pressure to enter the contract). These are basic tenants of what constitutes a contract.
and besides, the marriage contract - with no terms and conditions, no equal consideration and no full disclosure - is made with the STATE as third party. whats the benefit in that? Tax deductions?
any thing else?
before marriage registrations, all births and marriages were recorded on family records or in bibles or other treasured volumes.
my view is: keep the STATE out of my business. I do not want their benefits of my voluntary participation.