dres relly no writtn rule on who kin be a bttr mother...a housewife may nt b able to undrstnd d true needs f her kids even tho she may b dre....on the othr hand...a wrking lady may b mre undrstnding...drs relly no boundary on dis...wat wud diffr myt b d amt f tym she gets to spnd wit her kids...if shez able4 to balance it....no issues!