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Pre-marital sex
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Matter of personal choice.
Society has there own view about it.
Recently it has been noticed that people indulge in this activity from a very young age.
Some @ 16.
So the right question would be should sex education made compulsory?
Young people should be made aware of the consequences.
As adults we do know what we are indulging in...
Here it's a personal choice...
Society has there own view about it.
Recently it has been noticed that people indulge in this activity from a very young age.
Some @ 16.
So the right question would be should sex education made compulsory?
Young people should be made aware of the consequences.
As adults we do know what we are indulging in...
Here it's a personal choice...
it depends upon a persons mentality how he or she view or thinks about pre-marital sex. but there also justified reasons for the both the cases. some thing theres not nything in getting indulge is wats the guarantee would be spouse will also be virgin.,whereas justified reason for not to indulge is not misusing the freedom given by parents or being loyal with the partner...............nd there are many more reasons for either of the cases
it depends upon a persons mentality how he or she view or thinks about pre-marital sex. but there also justified reasons for the both the cases. some thing theres not nything in getting indulge is wats the guarantee would be spouse will also be virgin.,whereas justified reason for not to indulge is not misusing the freedom given by parents or being loyal with the partner...............nd there are many more reasons for either of the cases
Cat Xavi
Catherine Xavier
21? I started much earlier than that
I think the age of consent is 18 in India, by the way. 16 in the U.S.A.
Nice to see you in this thread! I don't know about you, but I find the ease with which people have taken judgemental and rigid stands in this thread to be a little frightening.
srikantkapoor
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SEX is natural for goodness sakes we live in the land of kamasutra! The result of love is sex-- love it and be HAPPY ( be + and not HIV +)!!!
anisdikens
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Hi all.. Pre-marital sex in Indian context has always been taken with a pinch of salt as it is considered a taboo..In my opinion it is completely at the discretion of individuals..But in India, women folks have twisted the legal arms to their favour and cases have found that consensual sex have been declared as pre-marital with force by women.. I suggest you need to be perfectly sure about your partner before u indulge in this.. Good or bad..Its their experience..very subjective..
Rajiv.Sawhney
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Man why do you consider Sex as SSSEEEXXX
I mean why do we make Hoophlaahh of this word.......
Consider it as a normal life activity.........and share it with whom you like.......ofcourse if he/she is ready...........
and then enjoy...........This way you will be able to keep ssseeexxx of your mind!!:SugarwareZ-291:
Have fun :SugarwareZ-286:
I mean why do we make Hoophlaahh of this word.......
Consider it as a normal life activity.........and share it with whom you like.......ofcourse if he/she is ready...........
and then enjoy...........This way you will be able to keep ssseeexxx of your mind!!:SugarwareZ-291:
Have fun :SugarwareZ-286:
@Cat Xavi
Regarding decision making,
we like taking are own decision from a very small age.
Like deciding which toy we want, clothes that we will wear, etc..
There are many people who are not mature even at the age of 21.
Probably they learn with experience.
For, if it is penile vaginal sex, the consent age for the girl remains 16 years (as provided in Section 375) and if it is penile non-vaginal sex with a woman (anal or oral sex), the consent age for her would be 18 years (as laid down by the HC verdict).
The consent age fixed by the high court for homosexuals is two years higher than the statutory bar for heterosexuals engaging in the common form of lovemaking, namely, "penile vaginal sex".
What's ur opnion regarding the topic..??
People have there opnion which may be right or wrong.
Regarding decision making,
we like taking are own decision from a very small age.
Like deciding which toy we want, clothes that we will wear, etc..
There are many people who are not mature even at the age of 21.
Probably they learn with experience.
For, if it is penile vaginal sex, the consent age for the girl remains 16 years (as provided in Section 375) and if it is penile non-vaginal sex with a woman (anal or oral sex), the consent age for her would be 18 years (as laid down by the HC verdict).
The consent age fixed by the high court for homosexuals is two years higher than the statutory bar for heterosexuals engaging in the common form of lovemaking, namely, "penile vaginal sex".
What's ur opnion regarding the topic..??
People have there opnion which may be right or wrong.
SEX....A much overused and often a misunderstood term. Dictionary defines premarital sex as fornication between a man and a woman not married .
Eat This: As per the statistics
(a) Rural youth were twice as likely as urban youth to have had pre-marital sex: 21 per cent of young men and 4 per cent of young women in rural areas said they had had pre-marital sex, as opposed to11 per cent and 2 per cent respectively in cities.
(b)Premarital sex among 18- to 20-year-olds in metros is as high as 65.6 per cent amongst girls and 63.3 amongst boys.
The debate we are having is because most of us are prudes.We have it and yet believe that by not talking about it we are the truth itself.
For me and perhaps to any man or woman of sane mind ,sex is nothing but a union of man and woman.A union in which a man and woman are the closest to each other,physically.
Methinks,we should question our own morality at certain times and rather then ask if premarital sex is alright or not,perhaps ask when should somebody become sexually active.Most of our laws on Sexuality are based on 150 years archaic laws.They need a rethink.Intercourse is wrong if done to a girl before she is even 16.Our laws describe it as rape even if done with her consent ,i call it physical abuse because by that time the body is not ready for the act.Imagine a girl in her teens -pregnant.Can her body take all those rigors of motherhood?Can she be a mother to that child and actually nurture it?Can the father actually take the responsibility of the mother and the child? I will let you decide.
Lets now talk about premarital sex between consenting adults..some one who is in their 20s.I would call that alright if you actually know what you are doing.It would be alright if both partners either are not emotionally committed and later don't feel cheated or used Or if both are equally committed and want to take the relationship to its logical end of being with each other forever.
I strongly despise sex as a 'wham bam -thank you -ma`am' kind of affair.After all we are homo sapiens-sapiens an intelligent breed in control of its urges and not Animals.
In the end it should suffice to say that sex- premarital or otherwise is okay as a way to gratify our animalistic urges as long as we are of the right age,understand the responsibilities and if no one is hurt in the end.Maslows hierarchy of needs is right and Sex will always be an important motivator(I know a certain company which got caught in a crossfire when they started giving out Dating allowance to its employees as a retaining factor)...............but saying that premarital sex is okay is perhaps wrong.
Eat This: As per the statistics
(a) Rural youth were twice as likely as urban youth to have had pre-marital sex: 21 per cent of young men and 4 per cent of young women in rural areas said they had had pre-marital sex, as opposed to11 per cent and 2 per cent respectively in cities.
(b)Premarital sex among 18- to 20-year-olds in metros is as high as 65.6 per cent amongst girls and 63.3 amongst boys.
The debate we are having is because most of us are prudes.We have it and yet believe that by not talking about it we are the truth itself.
For me and perhaps to any man or woman of sane mind ,sex is nothing but a union of man and woman.A union in which a man and woman are the closest to each other,physically.
Methinks,we should question our own morality at certain times and rather then ask if premarital sex is alright or not,perhaps ask when should somebody become sexually active.Most of our laws on Sexuality are based on 150 years archaic laws.They need a rethink.Intercourse is wrong if done to a girl before she is even 16.Our laws describe it as rape even if done with her consent ,i call it physical abuse because by that time the body is not ready for the act.Imagine a girl in her teens -pregnant.Can her body take all those rigors of motherhood?Can she be a mother to that child and actually nurture it?Can the father actually take the responsibility of the mother and the child? I will let you decide.
Lets now talk about premarital sex between consenting adults..some one who is in their 20s.I would call that alright if you actually know what you are doing.It would be alright if both partners either are not emotionally committed and later don't feel cheated or used Or if both are equally committed and want to take the relationship to its logical end of being with each other forever.
I strongly despise sex as a 'wham bam -thank you -ma`am' kind of affair.After all we are homo sapiens-sapiens an intelligent breed in control of its urges and not Animals.
In the end it should suffice to say that sex- premarital or otherwise is okay as a way to gratify our animalistic urges as long as we are of the right age,understand the responsibilities and if no one is hurt in the end.Maslows hierarchy of needs is right and Sex will always be an important motivator(I know a certain company which got caught in a crossfire when they started giving out Dating allowance to its employees as a retaining factor)...............but saying that premarital sex is okay is perhaps wrong.
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love786
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Sex is a very strong biological need. However sex after marriage has a purpose of not only evolution but also a medium of expressing love between couples. If sex becomes a mere need of the body then it can not be enjoyed in true sense and becomes monotonous. This is the reason why many marriages are failing now a days. Because the concept of sex is not very clear and a lot of importance is paid to this subject in negative sense. It is therefore duty of the parents to talk freely on the subject with their kids and enlighten them. The concepts of pre-marital sex have a direct bearing on our total concepts of sex itself. It is important how one feels about sex personally, it is like when you are hungry, you eat garbage or you wait for the right food. Or in other words reading a good book.
ramsharma88888
Ram Sharma
Pre marital sex is something real in today's world and there is no point hiding it behind closed doors . It is a reality we have to accept however with it also comes accepting responsibility for our actions . I thing it is fine to indulge in it if one is in love with his partner . indulging in it as an activity of 'fun' or 'recreation' is wrong .
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love786
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SEX IS COSIDERED AS THE SYMBOL OF LUST BEFORE MARRIAGE IN INDIA HOWEVER IT IS CHANGING A BIT HOWEVER STILL U CANT PRACTISE IT SO FREELY LIKE IN OTHER COUNTRIES,,,,,(FRANCE,USA ETC
IF YOU MARRY SOMEONE AND LATER COME TO KNOW THAT YOUR PARTNER HAD SEX WITH OTHERS TOO WHAT WILL BE YOUR REACTION. IF IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE TO YOU THEN GO FOR IT AND IF IT IS A BIG DEAL FOR YOU ABOUT YOUR PARTNERS PREMARITAL LIFE THEN YOU ALSO BE FAITHFUL AND AVOID IT AND THE REST DEPENDS ON SITUATION
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love786
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it depends on the culture difference in asian and islamic countries premaritial sex is considered as sin while in european countries its just like the daily neccesity but due to the impact of the western culture now its impacting indian culture also as most of the teenagers in the metro cities induldged in sex before marriage
i think it is very personal. I have no problem with and do not consider that as an issue.