done jst for the sake of physical urge is sex
and done for the sake of emotional urge is love.
so if the urge is so strong then go ahead......
but if yur urge is not greater than ur ethics then dont.
jst b4 going 4 sex jst think is it really something that you feel or yu want.
because i believe feelings are never wrong but needs are at times.
and other thing is the person yu r with .
if yu r with the peson yu really love than its fyn bt doing it with sm1 for sm motive or sm help or favor or any other purpose is always wrong pre or post marriage............
thats all........
rest depends on the situation and circumstances..
n i believe a person who urges for sex has grown up enough to understand is it right or wrong............
so no need to debate on it and make it ethical or moral..............
because what is right for 1 may be wrong for the other..
so do what you lyk n dnt teach others.............
all the best.....................:SugarwareZ-200:
Well i am totally against pre martial sex yaar come on its not a right trend in our country. I am sorry to say but we copy all wrong things from western countries but we haven't learned one good thing of western countries and that is to follow and preserve our culture and traditions. We must follow our culture and our culture did not permit us for any such activity. This is not right to have sex with a girl before marriage and if we keep on following this trend then for what purpose a marriage is??
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Hmm premarital sex? I think it's a lot better and healthy than sex rape isnt it? If a person's religion or belief is stronger than the desire to have sex even prohibited by one's faith --- then think about which head do you obey. i think it is not a question to be debated.
What i really think that is important is; have sex responsibly and safely.
i think ,....you should not indulge in this activities....one this is not morally wrong ....and other this is breach of loyalty of ur partner with whom you gonna marry...!!
moral science itself is questionable as it depends on each culture, i feel its good as long as the other sex feels the same, and there is no law against it