Pre-marital sex

Pre martial sex doesn't depends on country...How can u say that it is bad for India and not Indian culture???? Is it written in any book that Pre martial sex is western culture??? Its a person's perception whether to do it or not.....If we create laws to stop it people would search for loopholes to break the law..Whatever people do, its better to bet safe than sorry....
 
castelino said:
Pre martial sex doesn't depends on country...How can u say that it is bad for India and not Indian culture???? Is it written in any book that Pre martial sex is western culture??? Its a person's perception whether to do it or not.....If we create laws to stop it people would search for loopholes to break the law..Whatever people do, its better to bet safe than sorry....
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Well said. Exactly what I used to say to my ex-husband, though in a slightly different context.

Btw, this actually is written in the Christian scriptures, so chastity before marraige is a western concept, even if it is observed more in the breach than in practice.
 
vending out the hidden desire of human . pre marital sex - why we try to look into that part of life which is not legal and law of the land does not allow. in the name of developed and forward looking society personal choice cannot become the norm of life . why we try to adopt to that type of lifestyle where there is a fear of consequences . social bonds has emotional linkages why we try to break those bonds for the joy of just few seconds which ends in a blind
 
ashwini sinha said:
vending out the hidden desire of human . pre marital sex - why we try to look into that part of life which is not legal and law of the land does not allow. in the name of developed and forward looking society personal choice cannot become the norm of life . why we try to adopt to that type of lifestyle where there is a fear of consequences . social bonds has emotional linkages why we try to break those bonds for the joy of just few seconds which ends in a blind
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FYI - Pre-marital sex is neither illegal nor is it against the law of the land.
 
Shailee said:
Well said. Exactly what I used to say to my ex-husband, though in a slightly different context.

Btw, this actually is written in the Christian scriptures, so chastity before marraige is a western concept, even if it is observed more in the breach than in practice.
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.................................................Thanx for that imp info madame :)
 
I personally feel that its a personal decision and everyone should have the right to take it.
There must not be any legal interception unless and until its totally agreed by both the parties.
After all its a natural process...and we know that interception in nature is not good
 
Its upon the couple wat the want to do and how much they are commited towards each other

but yes when we consider our culture in India its not allowed and even not considered right...

so basically one has to be mentally prepared for all these things in life
:(thankss:emptybath:
 
IF once you decide that you will be with he /she for life long,then go a head depends on ur own interests,but for time pass fun purposes it is not good as intercourse is all about expressing your love towards your beloved ones,sadly many people take it as a pleasure.....any one agree with me????
 
needless to say.. Sex is a gr8 feeling. It is not important u have it pre or post marriage. Important thing is how honest you are with yourself ?. Before marriage u are in in affair which is not converted to final step.. ofcourse.. the marriage.. then aren't u selfish enough to tell your "would be" LIFE Partner on your indulgences, ur past life?
I think one question in my mid is ..
How we differentiate Njoyment and requirement? or Am I incorrect to think otherwise?
 
needless to say.. Sex is a gr8 feeling. It is not important u have it pre or post marriage. Important thing is how honest you are with yourself ?. Before marriage u are in in affair which is not converted to final step.. ofcourse.. the marriage.. then aren't u selfish enough to tell your "would be" LIFE Partner on your indulgences, ur past life?
I think one question in my mid is ..
How we differentiate Njoyment and requirement? or Am I incorrect to think otherwise?
 
India is a country which is an ideal for all other countries in world. We are considered as world's most respected and well mannered society with a very rich culture. We must be proud of that but we are following trends like pre martial sex its not a right thing and a practice for India why we forgot that our forefathers have set up some limits which we must not cross our cultures in India, all the religions in India no body allow such practice Why we always stand in front of our own traditions and culture in defence of Western traditions and culture and i am really very shocked that youth of India is forgetting their traditions and crossing limits.
If pre martial sex is all so whats the need of marriage, i think pre martial sex will increase sex related crimes in India and we all know that 80% of people who pretend to love some are just love that person for time pass and consider those fake lovers and then say how much safe will be a girl in today's society friends its not only the question of our dignity but also safety of our social rules, traditions and culture. What is problem in post marriage sex if u are supporting pre matial sex then this clearly means your love is just for your sexual satisfaction nothing else.

I STRONGLY OPPOSE PRE MARTIAL SEX
 
its good when u r sure that ur partner is lifelong also he or she is not using u for pleasure. life long partner is one who is interested in u and not in sex or ur body. having spended time, we can easily come to know who is life long and who is no long. Use ur commonsense while having Pre-marital sex. thats my view
 
In India the rate of pre-marital sex is gradually increasing. Recent survey taken by a reputed company says...25% of young boys&girls know full knowledge of sex. 17% of girls are already had sex with their boy-friend .....this is taken from 5000 young boys&girls age between 15 to 25 all over India. India is shining in this subject too........
 
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