Dealing & Facing the Criticism Boldly with Confidence
It’s a common scenario that almost all of cannot handle criticism; many a times we often insult the one who is helping us overcome our weakness; rather they themselves take it as an insult and blame the person telling you these things as the who lacks. Actually speaking criticism is an amazing tool to evaluate you and can help in building a strong character. Instead of taking it as an embarrassment you should take it as an encouragement, but this isn’t seen everywhere. Hence the way you take your criticism similar is the way you will implement things that when you try to improve self. The very first thing that an individual can do is to be a student. Adapting the attitude of a student will help you accept comments optimistically; one should remember that these things will help improve self. At such time just listening to whatever the person in front of you saying is the right philosophy to adopt. After getting known of all the improvements to be made in self & when time comes when you need to respond the commenter make sure you are polite in you tone. It is most likely that you might get upset and set an insulting tone. If you have unintentionally hurt someone it's also the perfect time for an apology. Responding in a particular manner will depict your personality and will overcome the weakness in you. Once done with the reactions and response state the intention you have make the commenter known of your intentions. Remember revealing your future intention is an acknowledgment that you have fully understood the criticism and you are planning to make the necessary changes to the very best of your ability. There is no one right response to a given criticism. A comfortable response for you will be based not only on your natural style, but also on who is criticizing you and the issue at hand. For example, you may feel comfortable ignoring a comment from a stranger but find it impossible to ignore a comment from your partner. Or, you may feel comfortable using humor with a friend but find you need to offer information to your parents. Confidence is contagious. When we believe in our parenting choices, we express ourselves with confidence. Expressing confidence can be the best way to prevent unwanted criticism and questioning. Criticism from others is a fact of life. Sometimes it is couched as gentler “feedback,” or presented as a “pointer.” Occasionally, criticism is offered as “advice” but whether it comes up in your professional or personal life, it’s to your benefit to open-mindedly evaluate it.
It’s a common scenario that almost all of cannot handle criticism; many a times we often insult the one who is helping us overcome our weakness; rather they themselves take it as an insult and blame the person telling you these things as the who lacks. Actually speaking criticism is an amazing tool to evaluate you and can help in building a strong character. Instead of taking it as an embarrassment you should take it as an encouragement, but this isn’t seen everywhere. Hence the way you take your criticism similar is the way you will implement things that when you try to improve self. The very first thing that an individual can do is to be a student. Adapting the attitude of a student will help you accept comments optimistically; one should remember that these things will help improve self. At such time just listening to whatever the person in front of you saying is the right philosophy to adopt. After getting known of all the improvements to be made in self & when time comes when you need to respond the commenter make sure you are polite in you tone. It is most likely that you might get upset and set an insulting tone. If you have unintentionally hurt someone it's also the perfect time for an apology. Responding in a particular manner will depict your personality and will overcome the weakness in you. Once done with the reactions and response state the intention you have make the commenter known of your intentions. Remember revealing your future intention is an acknowledgment that you have fully understood the criticism and you are planning to make the necessary changes to the very best of your ability. There is no one right response to a given criticism. A comfortable response for you will be based not only on your natural style, but also on who is criticizing you and the issue at hand. For example, you may feel comfortable ignoring a comment from a stranger but find it impossible to ignore a comment from your partner. Or, you may feel comfortable using humor with a friend but find you need to offer information to your parents. Confidence is contagious. When we believe in our parenting choices, we express ourselves with confidence. Expressing confidence can be the best way to prevent unwanted criticism and questioning. Criticism from others is a fact of life. Sometimes it is couched as gentler “feedback,” or presented as a “pointer.” Occasionally, criticism is offered as “advice” but whether it comes up in your professional or personal life, it’s to your benefit to open-mindedly evaluate it.