Arranged or Love Marrage ???

Love marriage or arrange marriage trust and love between the couple is very important.Respect for each other and their views are also very important n then it doent matter whether love marriage or arrange marriage......................
 
Some people in arranged marriages "learn" to love their mates. Some people who thought they were in "love" have no business being married. All of these types of aruments give credence to the fact that people must do what is best for them whether it is dictated by their background, beliefs, ideals, etc. Moral: Don't worry about it unless it is directly influencing YOUR life.
 
:SugarwareZ-241:love marriage is good cos u know better to whom u r going to marry,arrange marriage is good only when there is no compromise.
 
Would you ever consider getting married to a person you never meet or just seen

once? Most probably no, but this happens to many young males and females throughout

India and other countries. Arranged marriages are now and have been heated debate in

certain cultures. Arranged marriages have many young boys and girls to destroy their

lives, but to others it is considered the most reliable way to find a life partner. Even

though today’s Western society believes in love marriages, parents in many cultures

disapprove of love marriages for their children. It’s very difficult to judge whether

arranged marriages are good or bad since they have both positive and negative effects.

An arranged marriage is when parents, or eldest male in the family, chooses a

partner for a young boy or girl. In some situations an aunt, family friend or relative finds

a partner for the child. Arranged marriages are practiced all over the world, mainly in

Hindu and Sikh cultures. It does not matter how westernized India or other countries may

have become, arranged marriages are still practiced. Arranged marriage is basically an

agreement between two families rather than two young people.
 
all love marriages :SugarwareZ-225:doesnt have haapy ending.................................
after marriage,,,,:SugarwareZ-194:..........
so before marriage think on it..........:SugarwareZ-162:
dont get.............:SugarwareZ-053:
 
ya it is gud but......
all love marriages :SugarwareZ-225:doesnt have haapy ending.................................
after marriage,,,,:SugarwareZ-194:..........
so before marriage think on it..........:SugarwareZ-162:
dont get.............:SugarwareZ-053:
 
Hello!

I feel that love marriage is better than the arranged marriage; you have the benefit of knowing your partner very well. To make the marriage successful, the couple needs to put in much stronger determination and extra efforts, mostly because in love marriage the couple will not have the support of both the families.

The ideal one would be a love marriage with the consent of both the families.

Regards,

Krishnan
 
Sorry man!!! we cant just select one.. Each has its own positive and negative aspects. So it depends mainly on how much you want and what you ultimately get!!!
 
I think it should be arrange marriage.....


See its very simple the reason for 90% love marriage is not love its the freedom that anybody enjoys after love marriage which is generally not there in arrange marriage.

Secondly love marriage is a decision on your own.. which doesn't involve your parents thus making it a risk affair.

thirdly... the base of love marriage is not understanding its physical appearance... i haven't seen any girl or any guy proposing any guy or any girl who is not beautiful.....the only reason they interact is the physical appearance of the counter part.


fourthly.... the understanding part is love marriage is always missing... never there..

fifthly.... the consequences of love marriage are not kept in mind before marrying anybody.. what will be the condition of the family and above all what will be the future results...


now the same thing is applicable for arrange marriage but with few benefits ....
firstly you are marrying your same caste with approval of your parents..


its not just the person its the whole family you are marrying with ...lol


other then this... there are many other things which comes in packages when you do arrange marriage...




to decide whether you should be going for a love marriage or arrange marriage ... you should first ask yourself and then to your counter part ... what is the real base of love.. and what is the reason of you being falling in love with someone......
 
i think it depends on individual pschye weather he can adjust to arrange or love maariage...
both has its pros & cons..so we can not outrighly discard one & accept one...
 
WELL ............................OL THAT I CAN SAY HERE IS THAT ...................SUCCESS OF A MARRIAGE DOES NOT MERELY DEPEND ON "FINDING THE RITE MATE"....................................BUT MAJORLY THRU " BEING THE RITE MATE"..................... ...........................AFTER THAT IT HARDLY MATTERS WHETHER U R INTO A LOVE MARRIAGE OR AN ARRANGED ONE............................................... .


THANX................
 
in love marriage man has to try fulfill every needs of his wife bcoz he is responsible for that......and in this situation he forgets about his responsibility toward parents......on the other side in arrange marriage both wife and husband equally liable for each-other and woman try to understand her responsibility toward her in-laws. so, in my point of view arrange marriage is better than love-marriage.:SugarwareZ-239:
 
love marriage. the only valid reason two people should unite is love. and that if two people truly love each other, they can work things out through thick and thin.
 
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