Arranged or Love Marrage ???

it depends and varies from person to person ,as both sides have its pros and cons .

for me personally i believe in the concept of Love ......'marriage' ,since this gives me the opportunity to know the person who i will end up spending the rest of my life very well. This gives me the opportunity and confidence that the chances of this 'Marriage' being successful is a lot higher since i happen to know the interests and likes ,dislikes of my partner very well and we share a happy and bonding relationship .
 
Love Marraige or an Arranged Marraige......Both have their plusses and minuses....depending on the situation. Some compromise ought to be there.

Mine is a love marriage....12 lovable years thru...

Its how one looks at it.
 
love is the most important base of any relationship.... whether it happens or after marrige isnt important. wat is important is tht they love n care n respect each other....
 
love or arranged is not the issue.......
its basically how u look at the relation and show respect for the other person......
n compromises and adjustments are there in all marriages.......
for love its before marriage n for arranged its later.........

i m planning for an arranged marriage........
 
THEY SAY MARRIAGES ARE MADE IN HEAVEN...I SAY THEY ARE IF AND ONLY IT INVOLVES PERSONS WHO ARE EMOTIONALLY AS WELL AS INTELLECTUALLY COMPATIBLE...FOR THIS THEY GOT KNOW EACH OTHER AND THIS IS POSSIBLE IF THEY SPEND SOME TIME TOGETHER AND GET TO KNOW ABOUT EACH OTHERS WEAKNESSES. THIS IS SOMETHING WHICH CANT BE DONE IN A NARROW MINDED SOCIETY LIKE OURS. THE GIRL AND BOY CAN ONLY CHOOSE THEIR RESPECTIVE PARTNERS ONLY AND ONLY IF THEY PROVE THEMSELVES STRONGLY IN SOCIETY AND THAT TOO IN SUCH A WAY SO THAT NOBODY CAN QUESTION THEIR CHARACTER...
I STRONGLY FEEL THAT THERE'S NO NEED FOR US GOING AGAINST OUR PARENTS OR THE SOCIETY. THE SOLUTION IS VERY SIMPLE...JUST PROVE YOURSELF
 
der is no right n wrong It al depends from people 2 people!! as long as da marriage works its cool whether arrange or love! Though yaa der shud b love in da marriage!! N der shud b freedom 2 choose after al its a choice 4 a lifepartner! so fair enuf!
 
It actually depends on person to person and how they adjust. I belive both have their pros and cons, but i prefere Arranged Marrage
 
too cute said:
i would anyday go for an arranged marriage!!!

arranged marriages are fun!!!!......an adventure....a challenge
everyday opens a new chapter in the life of the two people concerned
you dont know each other.....n it gets exciting to find out stuff about each other
there are no expectations....you accept each other with all the strenghts and weaknesses
you can never get bored in an arranged marriage!!!!
everything is so new and exciting....no matter whether its good or ugly.....you are ready for anything!!!!

love marriages are........BORING!!!!
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umm...

Maybe you should give love marriage a try afterall!!!
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too cute said:
Nothing great....you never know...i might just change my mind about this tomorrow
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too_cute's found someone too_handsome :aj1: :aj1:

Piece of advice for you - forget arranged or love, don't get married.

You never know, you might just change your mind tomorrow... :aj:
 
A.J. said:
too_cute's found someone too_handsome :aj1: :aj1:

Piece of advice for you - forget arranged or love, don't get married.

You never know, you might just change your mind tomorrow... :aj:
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Yeah true....
I won't get married only now.
 
the most difficult subject on this forum :) i saw many love marriages and arranged marriages also. It depends on your luck. if you fell inlove with somebody than love marriage. if not arrange marriage is better....
 
Absolutely rite Pallavi,

if u try to give then automatically un recieve back. but v expect frst bfore giving n there problem starts.

Love is all about making our partner happy which in turn shd make us happy. isnt it???


Tushar.
 
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