What Love Is ; What Love Isn't

[ajay.surana]

Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing And is your voice caught within your chest?
It isn't love, it's like.

You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't love, it's lust.

Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't love, it's luck.

Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't love, it's loneliness.

Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't love, it's loyalty.

Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's love.

Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's love.

Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's love.
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Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't love, it's pity.

Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't love, it's low confidence.

Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't love, it's infatuation.

Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and elation pulls you close and holds you?
Then it's love.

Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't love, it's friendship

Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's love.

Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a lie.

Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's love.

Are you willing to give all of your favorite things for their sake?
It isn't love, it's charity.

Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's love.

 

[amit_studies]

Hey this post was reallly great.. Very practical... Very true... Every line was surprising..

 

[manthan_479]

here's a basic difference b/w luv lust n marraige

Love, lust & marriage...




LOVE - When your eyes meet across a crowded room.

LUST - When your tongues meet across a crowded room.

MARRIAGE - When you lose your child in crowded room.



LOVE - When intercourse is called "making Love."

LUST - When intercourse is called "screwing."

MARRIAGE - What the hell are you talking about?



LOVE - When you share everything you own.

LUST - When you steal everything they own.

MARRIAGE - When the bank owns everything.



LOVE - When it doesn't matter if you don't climax.

LUST - When the relationship is over if you don't climax.

MARRIAGE - What's a climax?



LOVE - When you write poems about your partner.

LUST - When all you write is your phone number.

MARRIAGE - When all you write is checks.



LOVE - When you show concern for your partner's feelings.

LUST - When you couldn't care less

MARRIAGE - When your only concern is what's on TV.



LOVE - When your farewell is "I Love you, darling..."

LUST - When your farewell is "So, same time next week..."

MARRIAGE - When your farewell is a relief.



LOVE - When you are proud to be seen in public with your partner.

LUST - When you only see each other naked.

MARRIAGE - When you never see each other awake.



LOVE - When your heart flutters every time you see them.

LUST - When your groin twitches every time you see them.

MARRIAGE - When your wallet empties every time yousee them.



LOVE - When nobody else matters.

LUST - When nobody else knows.

MARRIAGE - When everybody else matters and you don't care who knows.



LOVE - When all the songs on the radio describe exactly how you feel.

LUST - When the song on the radio determines how you do it.

MARRIAGE - When you listen to talk radio.



LOVE - When breaking up is something you try not to think about.

LUST - When staying together is something you try not to think about.

MARRIAGE - When just getting through today is your only thought.



LOVE - When you're only interested in doing things with your partner.

LUST - When you're only interested in doing things to your partner.

MARRIAGE - When you're only interested in your golf score.

 

[san4unall]

Good One!!Lays bare some true facts of life!!

 

[waleed231971]

thank you for your post i realy appreciate you sharing these thoughts

 

[petterford]

it's really like the first one.. now i know what's love is?

 

[kushleshsharma]

Well, The moment I try to describe Love, Words Fails me..

 

[simi4151]

when people say I love you because I need you, then its not love, that love will not last long, but when people say I need you because I love you then its definitely Love. No matter they are together are not still their love will last long.
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Simi

 

[simi4151]

When the hunger of love is far more than the hunger of bread, sleep, other amusement and sex then it can be called as true love. People forget these most important thing's and assume that their are in love.
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[vishalshinde]

those were some good ones and please do keep on writing to help others.

 

[rahul_parab2006]

when people say I love you because I need you, then its not love, that love will not last long, but when people say I need you because I love you then its definitely Love. No matter they are together are not still their love will last long.
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Simi

excellent quote.....
i m absolutely agree with u............simi.........

moreover, i wud say

"Love is the master key that opens the gates of happiness."

and for Marriage, it is vice-versa. :big_grin:

 

[dimpy.handa]

"And I don't care,
I only need the sunlight on my face,
and the breeze against my back.
Headphones in my ears,
and my ipod on full blast."

 

[Hiral.s]

Re: What Love Is ; What Love Isn't

Why is it so necessary to define love, when it means so many different things to so many people. Love may not be those things to you, but it may be to other people...does that make it any less? I hope not.