Talking about 'failure' over a cup of tea.

Failure is a reality check; a way of knowing that you are trying. In every walk of life , people face challenges but getting spooked and giving up can be the worst scenario. It's only when you give it a trial that you will understand how it helps in an in-depth learning and over-all growth. You might have heard your mum saying this dozens of times - 'The one who keeps falling through is the one who has tasted most of the methodologies and has the most of the experiences which will help him for the upcoming challenges. He will do it better and at a faster pace than the others because now he knows what is not to be done.' How astounding and striking a thought.

Who hasn't failed? Name one. Even the most successful people have. It's just that while looking at their success, we get ignorant of what goes behind the making of such magnificent picture. In this era of tough competition, failing has become a huge 'NO' causing those who go though it feel shrinking, worthless and eventually makes them quit their dream. Looking at the title one must understand it's essence, that is, not to make a fuss about it, rather take it normally. Going astray doesn't long for a day or so it might take some time and this is when you will feel drained, despondent and dismayed. You might feel it's incessant, disconnecting you from the way you wanted to live, the positivity you always wanted and briefly you would feel your life to be turned upside down.

The foremost and crucial step to be taken is 'accepting' it, say to yourself - 'it's okay', and remember to pick yourself up, dust the dirt and start all over again. You are capable of doing great things in life and achieve every milestone that is set. Let no rejection or failure persuade you otherwise. One must always remember that it's neither success nor failure that can weigh their worth. Never compare yourself with others because it neither aids in the development nor adds up to inner peace. It will further drain out all your energy, positivity and self-confidence. It's true that it's not as easygoing as we try to portray failure while speaking about it but not forever lasting too. I am a student pursuing my dreams, with an expectation to be rewarded with the best things of life. Even though I know it's not easy and comfy, still I am; like you all are. We all are together in it. Let's not make failure an issue and belittle those going through it.
 
Failure is indeed a steping stone in success, but it is also a crossroad where a man is faced with 2 choices. One the easy way to give up and just relax in life. And the other way is to not give up and continue with drastic measures despite the failure. It helps a person to recieve tremendous growth and clears a path to real success in future.
 
Work done recklessly is hardly profitable. So one should think over the situation many times before undertaking a project. The foolish people do the things in haste and lose the game whereas the wise people win the game by keeping patience and with steady manipulation. In the story of HARE AND TORTOISE, the tortoise wins the race because of slow and steady performance whereas the hare loses the line because of its hasty performance. So rash decision always proves to be a wrong decision. So one should think over many times before doing something.
 
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