Pre-marital sex

nidhi.lodha28 said:
vikram chawla said:
What do you think about pre marital sex...

well i think its all about one's own personal choice the only thing is one has to be very responsible about.
if you have someone that u want to do it with sure go ahead but plz. do be sensible about it like take proper precaution etc. thats it i guess
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I agree with what she said.. it depends on individuals involved..their mentality...their openness and most importantly their sensibility.
One should take proper precautions so as not to face consequences later on .
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Its a personal matter we cant generalise it. If boy and girl want it let them do . Who is going to stop. But dont compell for it. thats all
 
SO many grlz say... pre marital sex is good......................
MY QUESTION IS......................
WHERE ARE THEY!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D :D :D

it's not good to have sex b4 marriage....
its lyk u r sharing ur part of love with some1 else rather than ur husband.......
and u will alwayz remember the person with whom u lost ur virgintiy....
jst think how painful it will b for ur spouse.......
u will compare him with ur EX... and if he is not good u might even go back for him...
Anewayz....... i m alwayz free/// u can contact me.... :P :P :P
 
seeing the frivolous and fickle minded nature of the Gen Y when it comes to relationships nowdays...its become a ritual of sorts.the whole sanctity of marriage is at stake as people luk for instant gratification sans the emotional baggage..its the premature venting out of ur natural urges
 
Well I am against pre martial sex
as it is totally westren we are having our own indian traditions and cultures
if we try to adopt a new and wrong culture i don'nt think it will be good for our country and our society
I think sex after marriage is ok but before marriage will not be acceptable in Indian culture and society.
 
gurpreetsingh said:
Well I am against pre martial sex
as it is totally westren we are having our own indian traditions and cultures
if we try to adopt a new and wrong culture i don'nt think it will be good for our country and our society
I think sex after marriage is ok but before marriage will not be acceptable in Indian culture and society.
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Well I'm glad you at least think sex after marraige is ok. Our species would have quite a problem on its hands otherwise. :)

By the way, this whole argument about pre-marital sex being a western concept and against Indian traditions lacks substantive proof. Our present-day society is more a product of Victorian morals from the 19th century than anything that went before.
 
Diffenrent people , different opinion . It really doent matter these days if somebody had a premarital sexual relationship . What matters is that the guy/ girl should remain faithfull to his/her current relationship.

To tell you a fact, there was a poll which stated that if a girl come directly to man and asks for a one night stand with no strings attached 99% men would always say yes to it ( Its in their hormones )

AND IF THE SAME IS DONe to women by a man she would blankly refuse and show him the fly!!!

Guys its in the genes to plant your seed almost wherever you get a chance
 
hmm....Pre-marital sex should not be encouraged as its limited to instant gratification of our natural urges. Well, it all depends upon the persons indulging in it. Regarding the moral side, once again it all depends upon the mindset of the individual(s) in question. For guys, its all about fun and being cool but for gals its not only emotional but personal too. Avoiding it and maintaining celibacy till marriage is the best way rather than give way for our desires!
 
According to our Indian culture pre-marital sex is definitely not accepted. but today we Indians follow Indian as well as American culture wherein certain people feel that pre marital sex is very cool but dey don't do it openly coz of the society and there are people who do disagree to this view. so i guess v should jus leave it on the individuals to decide whether they wana go 4 it or not. Sex is one of a kind to express love for ur partner it doesn't matter whether u do it b4 or after marriage what matters is that certain ppl do it but stil do not accept it n i think v all shud open our minds n accept these things.
 
talk about sex as an indulgence - definitely defies logic or customs or bullshit
let them who want to have it, have it,
what is the need to be judgemental
 
toxicboa said:
For guys, its all about fun and being cool but for gals its not only emotional but personal too. Avoiding it and maintaining celibacy till marriage is the best way rather than give way for our desires!
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Well its fun & cool for gals as well. I dont think they're less (specially in large metropolis) :)
 
vikram chawla said:
What do you think about pre marital sex...

Is it fine to indulge in this..or is it bad...

What do you think about this on morality grounds..??
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Well this question has similar sentiments as:
"You Should be Vegetarian of a Non Vegetarian"
people who do it feel its right... others feel it is wrong...
it all depends on the background of a person, his environment where he has ground up. This topic can be debated indefinately.
 
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