Hi! This is a twenty-something professional chick living in South London! Good friends, well read and well travelled! But something's missing. A gorgeous boyfriend! So, what do I do?
Well, I joined a well known dating site. That was a good few weeks ago. Wrote my profile, about what a nice girl I am, caring, like travelling, seeing films, cosy nights in on the sofa with a bottle of wine etc. Stuck some pics up on the site to! Within 24 hours I had over 50 emails! Ooooh meee gosh! I thought, and hoped, I'd get some response, but 50 messages in one day was considerable better than expected! It was time to get a glass of wine, sit down in front of my pc, and start going through them.
Some were mundane and bland, some just said "hi, how are you?", some seemed obvious copy-and-paste, some seemed a bit more interesting, and some were just downright weird. There was a 59 year old who said he'd never had a girlfriend and still lived with his mum. There was Nigel, who said he had two flight tickets to Dubai for the next day and would I meet him at the airport!independent escort There was one guy, Tom, who wanted me to walk all over him in stilletoes. And there was a guy named Maurice who asked if I was wearing white knickers. Spoilt for choice, huh?
Now I wouldn't say I was necessarily old fashioned! I like to think I'm a modern, sexy girl, who likes to have her fun, and is open minded and accommodating in most respects. But bearing in mind that these were first emails from total strangers I'd never spoken to in my life I had to wonder whether this was what online dating had in store! I started writing back replies to a select few of the emails I'd received. While I was doing so, I noticed my inbox was getting even more mail. Thought I'd leave it until the next day.
Another 24 hours, and a further 47 emails in my inbox! Went to get a cuppa, came back and found another 4 new messages, making it 101 so far, in just two days! A handful were replies to mine from the previous day. "Glad you do own stilletoes" said one, "thanks for your nice message even though you say I am not your type" wrote the 59 year old living with his mummy, "and how long have you been wearing your white knickers?" wrote another of my respondents! I was kind of having fun with all this! just seeing where it was all going to go! No harm in that, is there?
Spend a few hours writing some emails. A couple of the guys seemed genuine and sincere, had jobs, hair and teeth! Felt like I might be onto something! I carried on my correspondence for a few weeks. Emails from new prospects lessened. I was getting only around 20 emails a day by week three! Some of the ongoing emails fizzled out, others carried on, including the white knicker guy! He seemed keen, and I was having fun, even though it was a bit naughty!
Plucked up the courage to agree to some real dates in the end! Met ten blokes all in all over a fortnight. I think three were good matey material, but nothing romantic (although they seemed keen). One turned nasty and scarey and I had to make a quick exit (wanted to hypnotise me... eurgh!). Some of the guys seemed total desperados and started talking sex after one drink. Got a bit too much too stomach! The knicker guy wanted me to give him a peek of my gusset. Made me almost choke on my G&T!
Ok, so I haven't met Mr. Right, or even Mr. Rightnow, but I've had fun, it's an experience, and you never know, you might meet someone one day. So for now, I'm renewing my membership! See you online!
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Well, I joined a well known dating site. That was a good few weeks ago. Wrote my profile, about what a nice girl I am, caring, like travelling, seeing films, cosy nights in on the sofa with a bottle of wine etc. Stuck some pics up on the site to! Within 24 hours I had over 50 emails! Ooooh meee gosh! I thought, and hoped, I'd get some response, but 50 messages in one day was considerable better than expected! It was time to get a glass of wine, sit down in front of my pc, and start going through them.
Some were mundane and bland, some just said "hi, how are you?", some seemed obvious copy-and-paste, some seemed a bit more interesting, and some were just downright weird. There was a 59 year old who said he'd never had a girlfriend and still lived with his mum. There was Nigel, who said he had two flight tickets to Dubai for the next day and would I meet him at the airport!independent escort There was one guy, Tom, who wanted me to walk all over him in stilletoes. And there was a guy named Maurice who asked if I was wearing white knickers. Spoilt for choice, huh?
Now I wouldn't say I was necessarily old fashioned! I like to think I'm a modern, sexy girl, who likes to have her fun, and is open minded and accommodating in most respects. But bearing in mind that these were first emails from total strangers I'd never spoken to in my life I had to wonder whether this was what online dating had in store! I started writing back replies to a select few of the emails I'd received. While I was doing so, I noticed my inbox was getting even more mail. Thought I'd leave it until the next day.
Another 24 hours, and a further 47 emails in my inbox! Went to get a cuppa, came back and found another 4 new messages, making it 101 so far, in just two days! A handful were replies to mine from the previous day. "Glad you do own stilletoes" said one, "thanks for your nice message even though you say I am not your type" wrote the 59 year old living with his mummy, "and how long have you been wearing your white knickers?" wrote another of my respondents! I was kind of having fun with all this! just seeing where it was all going to go! No harm in that, is there?
Spend a few hours writing some emails. A couple of the guys seemed genuine and sincere, had jobs, hair and teeth! Felt like I might be onto something! I carried on my correspondence for a few weeks. Emails from new prospects lessened. I was getting only around 20 emails a day by week three! Some of the ongoing emails fizzled out, others carried on, including the white knicker guy! He seemed keen, and I was having fun, even though it was a bit naughty!
Plucked up the courage to agree to some real dates in the end! Met ten blokes all in all over a fortnight. I think three were good matey material, but nothing romantic (although they seemed keen). One turned nasty and scarey and I had to make a quick exit (wanted to hypnotise me... eurgh!). Some of the guys seemed total desperados and started talking sex after one drink. Got a bit too much too stomach! The knicker guy wanted me to give him a peek of my gusset. Made me almost choke on my G&T!
Ok, so I haven't met Mr. Right, or even Mr. Rightnow, but I've had fun, it's an experience, and you never know, you might meet someone one day. So for now, I'm renewing my membership! See you online!
To try online dating click onto [https://valerieaugust.com/]