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Dimpy Handa
Is marriage an outdated institution? Is co-habitation replacing the institution of marriage, and will this affect the security and stability of children?
 
Marriage is major happenings in one's life and it has lots of importance attached to it.Co-habitation is jus a western phenomenon catching-up among the people who dunt really understand the importance of marriage.

-Deepak.
 
i wud say more than understanding... the realisation comes sooner when co-habitation is followed... one soon realises he is a human and he cant be changing houses every other moment... only one way to satisfy his emotional need is marraige... i believe marriage the culture cannot come to a country like India
 
Marriage is a kind of Compromise. Its made by our society..I am not against it but that is the way it works as far as India is concerned..This will be the way for as far as i can see. Take the case of a normal Divorced Indian couple...the stress get transferred to the Children too(Negative and sometimes disastrous effect).
In western countries co-habitation works in case if both partners are independent. Children will be fine if they are sent to hostels from High School.
Hard thing to do....
 
studies show that couples who had cohabited had less positive problem-solving behaviors and were, on average, less supportive of each other than those who had not cohabited. As well, researchers have found that couples who had cohabited before marriage had much higher rates of premarital violence than those who had not lived together. This premarital violence then leads to higher rates of marital violence, another factor related to divorce
 
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