Love marriage Vs Arranged marriage

[shadowboss]

The way of love isnt important, the main point is to find right person to marry.

 

[DHSanj]

infact arranged marriage would be better as the girl and boy not having know each other earlier try to learn about each other and learn to adjust and accomodate while in love as it is blind it shows the better side of the person only and afetr marriage, both partners take the other for granted on several occasions which throws the gear out of life and it takes quite an understanding to accept the other aspects of the person not seen earlier.

 

[GKGopakumar]

I think when are looking for long relationship arrange marriage works .. because only some love marriages stays long ...

In love marriage you regret your decision and move on for someone else ...
But in arrange marriage its ur families decision and hence you just keep going on and on !!! ...

Guys these are my views .. take it or leave it but this is what i believe in ...

 

[tifosi]

Love... well, you atleast know your enemy

:SugarwareZ-266:

 

[snehs]

According to me both marriages are good. Both have their own values

 

[dude4pals]

Arrange....wat say guys/.........depends upon person to person........atlast its your life

 

[nimma_jind]

arranged marriage........i m happy with it.......

 

[thedude]

you should only marry for love and not because your family tells you to

 

[aceMBA]

LOVE is much better.
You get to know the person much better and you can spend your whole life with him/her.

his/ her strnegth or weaknesses are already known so much better to cope with.

his/ her strnegth or weaknesses are already known so much better to cope with.

 

[gapata]

obviously..love marriage. but for some guys.. who find it difficult to find lover (i mean...face difficulty in deciding who is the right one 4 them).. arrange is the only option......

jo pahle ho jaye woh achchi... bhagwan ke ghar der hai andher nahi

 

[Maheshiitm]

either love marriages or arranged marriages are good .....arranged "love" marriage

 

[jkd_102]

Love or arrange it completely depends upon two partner.

 

[sanjayteni]

peoples who have had love marriages are more happy because they are less compromised than the arange marriage people

 

[Beenthrella]

True..Do the way that makes you satisfied with life.

 

[Hiral.s]

If marriages are made in heaven, then why the debate over love marriage v/s arrange marriage??

Well, Personally no issues with either of them. I believe If u fall in love then love marriage orelse stay happy with the arrange ones..:SugarwareZ-229:

 

[rashmi1485]

love marriage.. prefer marrying a known person than an unkown

 

[manavsi]

Love Marriage as here you know the person very well.

 

[eshaal]

An arranged marriage turned into a love marriage

 

[amanjain861]

There can be no fixed answer, it depends what works out for you.
Just look for a compatible person.

 

[dimpy.handa]

When two people get married, they make a commitment of a lifetime (I hope. Aaj ke zamaane mein...u know)

If they have a love marriage and their p's are okay with it, then great. As long as they don't have problems with each other later on But if they married against their parents' will AND they have problems later on, that's bad REALLY bad So I guess it's fine if people have love marriages as long as their parents aren't going to commit suicide after the two get married or something

Arranged marriages are great, in my opinion, as long as the guy/girl has a say in it. It's just from people around me (my parents, aunts & uncles, etc. etc.), that I've noticed that arranged marriages work aND last And this might not be true, par then I have an uncle that got married (love marriage) a couple months ago and now they're filing for a divorce So I just speak from what's going on around me, let's hear what you all have to say