LOVE (bf & gf culture) in youth

Today while i was traveling from train, a college going coulple were sitting in front of me. They were acting so pathetically. I was feeling uncomfortable. What I mean is love is eternal. That dosent mean you should show your love openly without considering about other people. One should not forget the outside world. Earlier people also loved others, but not upto this extent. No decency at all. I havent seen a single corner unoccupied with couple kissing each other. C'mon man. Grow up and mature.
 
there is no as such culture called bf or gf it is what indians has made it. its just attraction of 2 different individuals coming close it can happen anywhere in the world obviouslly it should be for good reasons not physical
 
What is culture??? it is a habit which has been cultivated by a particular community for so many years.That habit is a culture.Do we have the gf bf habit ??? Do our forefathers were having this culture.So i strongly belive that we are deviating from culture.
 
Indian culture doesn't say not to love any one. Its just the way couples showing their love in public places is offending our heritage.
 
there is no value of culture and the thing associated with it, its just the feeling which drives every human being, culture is not something static, it should change. so love can't and should not be stopped by name of culture.
 
developing liking for each other cant b told to b western....i guess ppl need to b mature enuf in thr relationship....coz relationships are turning delicate like dat in west nowadays...

love is not western...it is universal
 
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bf & gf culture is definitely not due to westernisation. This culture is equally prevalent in rural areas however the way it is carried out differs.
 
ynkamat said:
Today while i was traveling from train, a college going coulple were sitting in front of me. They were acting so pathetically. I was feeling uncomfortable. What I mean is love is eternal. That dosent mean you should show your love openly without considering about other people. One should not forget the outside world. Earlier people also loved others, but not upto this extent. No decency at all. I havent seen a single corner unoccupied with couple kissing each other. C'mon man. Grow up and mature.
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I'm curious to know exactly what the couple was doing that made you 'uncomfortable', especially in light of your last line.
 
@catxavi,

i feel pity 4 dem, n i feel ashamed..... nw a days esp students case if v take, many of dem r invloving in sex in the name of love....love means its nt kissing n blah blah it means caring of one on another, it must b a involvmnt of 2 hrts nt 2 physical bodies......

bt think frm parents point of view 2, dey r sending der boy r gal 2 study nt 2 stuck in love.......n get involved in scandals......

i hate public romance.......

@ynkamat,

i think catxavi mean y r u feeling uncomfortable u shd stare at dem, if dey dnt feel shy r shamed of doing public roamnce den y u shd feel uncomfortable 2 stare at dem.....

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gudipudiswaroop said:
@catxavi,

i feel pity 4 dem, n i feel ashamed..... nw a days esp students case if v take, many of dem r invloving in sex in the name of love....love means its nt kissing n blah blah it means caring of one on another, it must b a involvmnt of 2 hrts nt 2 physical bodies......

bt think frm parents point of view 2, dey r sending der boy r gal 2 study nt 2 stuck in love.......n get involved in scandals......

i hate public romance.......

@ynkamat,

i think catxavi mean y r u feeling uncomfortable u shd stare at dem, if dey dnt feel shy r shamed of doing public roamnce den y u shd feel uncomfortable 2 stare at dem.....

:SugarwareZ-056:
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I suppose that's one point of view - what's interesting is to identify the 'line'.

An extened kiss in a public place and anything beyond that would probably be embarassing for lookers-on (though why they should look at all is another issue).

How about holding hands in public? Does that count as 'public romance'? What about resting my head on my boyfriend's shoulder while sitting together? A kiss on the cheek? What about when a girl meets another girl and hugs/kisses her? Is that also vaguely embarassing? Or is it acceptable?

Also, to clarify, I had no such intention in my question to ynkamat. It's pure curiosity.
 
how can one question for the reason of love....to me rising with (not falling in) love is quite healthy....n culture...show off affection in public place.... has nothing to do with love.....a couple can do these things....even if they dont love each other....n physical relation is a part of it.....one cant separate these in two different aspects.....
 
If people say that holding hands in public is obscene, then what will they say when they see figurenes on ancient temples involved in all sorts of "obscene acts"?
Who can give an answer for tht?
 
hi guys i think in today's world there's nothing black or white everything is in grey, or to be simpler each to its own.
i dont think there's anything wrong or western in having bf/gf but infatuation these days is easily mistaken as love.which should not happen its ok even if u fall in love at the age of 13 but u should be aware what is it that u r feeling.
 
hi hunter 123
i completely agree with u holding hands is just no crime i think there r things which ppl need to understand and grow with their thinking its wrong if u do something terribly wrong in the public holding hands or a hug is even common between frnds these days forget bout couples then.
 
The only critism to this can come if either of the 2 land up indulging in an activity they would regret . There is no harm in having s special someone with whom you can share ur feelings more than eithers before you get married .
All this talk is a publicity stunt and vote bank gimmick indulged bu unscrupulous people.
 
It's all about mentallity..............Bt we shouldn't forget, that our parents are more important....so better to avoid early age affair
 
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