LOVE (bf & gf culture) in youth

I guess this is not a culture but a way a human's would have show their affection for the opposite sex whom they are interested in.
It very natural and people who are not interested can stay away from it.
 
love : is a very pure thing.......... and is a feeling that is being xperiend by many since ages and is considerd sacred..... in India.....BUT

today most of the couples ie bf & gf are actually no really serious and it has rather become a fashion trend to get into relationship..................

but luv is pure ans sacred but its true meaning must be understood..............

Regards
Alisha S.
 
since India is a free country...so same freedom of expression should be made available to youth also...on one hand we are taught from childhood to love, to respect...but when it comes to making a bf or gf..it is still a taboo...our worthy politicians should engross themselves into better things related to the economy instead of worrying abt relationships we get into!!!
 
as far as indian culture is concerned.... it never opposed 2 ppl fallin in love wid each other...as if u believe in the stories of GODs... most of them fell in love and then they married... in those times..we never had tht arrange marriage or love marriage system... it all came later on....
and as far as bf n gf culture in youth...is concerned.... it is not wrong to have a bf or gf... until n unless u r committed, serious n tryin to build a relationship based on love n understanding rather than jst showin off n doin timepass....
children or youth can easily point out the mistakes or the misunderstandings which happen in their parents' marriage.... {arrange}
n on this basis they feel tht love marriages do work well....
bt at the same time there shud be maturity enuf to handle relationships as well manage their personal n professional life...
this is quite difficult..as ppl get involved easily wid der bf or gf... n they dnt think any other thing imp other than them....
there shud be a balance in everything... this will lead to a long lasting relationship...
:)
 
I personally feel falling in love is not a bad thing provided it should be true love from both the sides and having a bf or gf just for timepass is not good . now-a-days every one is keen to have a bf/gf they feel that others have then why shouldn't i have . each and every guy/girl they see who is beautiful/handsome they get flattered then and there and they give it the name of love.
 
well.... dis kind of conflict always existed in our society. the prbm is, our generation (mainly the teenagers) doesn't recognize whether they are attracted to a girl/boy, or they are in love with the said one. the feel even attraction as love and get a false impression dat dey love the othr person. also as this age people have boiling blood, mixd with lesser wisdom, it leads to erratic nd xtreme results like killing the othr person or attempting suicide if the othr dnt accept or running away if parents dnt accept.
Also, since our country people hav a bit more of salt nd spice, these cases are very common.... almost 1 or 2 cases daily....

if this is the case, hw can parents trust in LOVE AT A YOUNG AGE???
even, no youth in love tries to pursuade their parents, i believe.... so, since u r in luv.... itz ur responsibility to pursuade and get the acceptance frm ur elders....!!!:bump2:
 
@ravitezamk : Yes i do accept wat u've said exactly....Teenage attractions were/are/will a common stroke those/these/future days as it's the passion of youth.....generously speakin..mostly it w'd definitely be a part of gossippin....all d vain things are d result..wat u said that suicides etc etc..this can be treated as one side of a coin....on the other side not all the people who love wid the name of love are careless,irresponsible cases....If i'm not wrong discussin about this topic w'd rather be as capturing the wind ....

I opine that as far as i knew....a perfect man/woman who succeed in Love may not succeed in LIFE--but an ordinary man/woman who fails in LOVE will definitely succeed and remain in the pages of history....

Hemanth
 
@hemanth

I opine that as far as i knew....a perfect man/woman who succeed in Love may not succeed in LIFE--but an ordinary man/woman who fails in LOVE will definitely succeed and remain in the pages of history....

so, u mean 2 say dat for any body 2 succeed in life, do love n fail.....

there is no guaranty dat a persn who fail in love wil def going 2 succeed in life,
ex: devdas, romeo n juliet n many more.....

da faild person , da distresd person wil destroy his/her life if he/she is true in their love.....

@all
its a message from my side:-
see i dnt say dat dis love(bf n gf) culture is bad bt its nt neccesary...its a daring step 2 love a person truly.... dnt go mad aftr ur beloved....
i dnt undrstnd hw cn they 4get parents n go mad aftr loved ones.....

is there any bond, any love any relation purer, stronger ,closer than parents have 4us......

:SugarwareZ-242:
 
@saty: firstly i did'nt say that every person who succeeded in life is a failure in love.....I said that if he/she had really loved for other if that condition fails...he'd definitely be under frustration for a certain period of tym but no longer he/she leaves a milestone in his life which will be remembered for centuries....

consider ur own example DEVDAS ....his extent of love proved that how much feelings he had for his love.....as he was born as a wealthy son of a high landlord....so he never had a problem of wealth or assets...he was away from naturely things which included love....so his aim was to succeed in love nd he struggled for it.....even today we all remember him on account of how vain he felt loving a woman.....

and coming to rhomeo and juliet story they did'nt love madly and ran away and died....they struggled with their families for their love....it was of no use so they ran away...even then they saved themselves concealing their every activity.....being disgussed with the fact that juliet's gettin engaged with other named lawrence.....he intakes the poison after kissing juliet and there fight begins among themselves there rhomeo dies and thus seeing him dead juliet with lot of vain tries to consume that poison but the poisonbottle seems to be empty....then she kisses rhomeo if his lips have some poison ..it was of no use then she grabs rhomeo's dagger and stabs herself leaving a wholly bloody scene....

even in this story too they did whatever they can do for succeeding but they gaveup as it was too far away from their approaches.....

So they finally made everyone to be sincere and true in love and never disgust anyone or betray anyone

but the love scenes we see today are upto what extent ??? no sincerety,no trust,no faith among themselves,,,,it has become a fashion roamin round the city hugging and kissing each other with tha name of love.......

here i don't say that true lovers are not at all there .....they may be a little extent who are sincere and have trust among themselves that they can change entire world for their love to succeed....

i think finding true lovers in the city is like finding a needles in polar ice cap
 
love is something which cannot be decided by a big brother as western culture as in primitive india gandharv vivah was very common. and before comiting somebody it is necessary to know the person . that is the only reason why government is thinking to legalize living relationship . the bf gf culture was a part of primitive India but resulted into marriage example shakuntala-dushyant had relationship before marriage , prithviraj chouhan and her queen were having a liking and love towards each other . socialites and politicians cannot decide way of living . First they should stop corruption, smoking ,drinking, etc
 
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