live in relationships should be encouraged or not?

[manishsinghon]

Hi Everyone!

I don't think that live in relationship should be encouraged. There are several reasons for this-

(i)If u love someone and trust him/her, then why do you afraid of giving it a name? Marriage is a sacred institution where society celebrates the union of two souls, but live-in-relationship none of family members are involved and are uncertain about their children's future.

(ii)Taking the example of western country does not prove that it is GOOD & should be practiced. Do everything the western people does is RIGHT, so we should follow them blindly?

(iii) India is always known for its moral values and ethics. When the western people are attracting towards India because the love & warmth they found in Indian families(note family can be created only when a person get married),is it reasonable to follow live-in-relationship ,just to show you modern and trendy?

(iv) Some say that it helps in the growth of an Individual-what it means that marriage does not let grow ? The FACT is that there are plenty of examples where people in the marriage are quite sucessful,in the current context we can see-Chetan Bhagat,Vishwnathan Anand,Sachin Tendulkar...etc. The truth is that growth does not depend on the type of relationship -BUT on how you handles the difficulties.

Please share your views…

 

[Business-education]

Yes it should be. There should be no boundaries in love and if you love someone then why feel shy in expressing it. Live in relationship is the better option and it develop relations. It helps you to know each other. Spend time with your love ones is the most precious moment and live in relationship offers that moment.

 

[angel111]

live in relationships will lead to more exploitation of girls .....

 

[jitenmazee]

I think in India, only the peoples, who have economical independence & they are truly interested in marriage, & prepared to deal with the results, should go ahead. We can't follow western culture blindly. Generally, they are more genuine & clear. In India, especially the girls, have to be very careful.... they may get cheated, & if they make up their mind to get another suitable match afterwards, can they easily neglect their past?