In today’s world widening gap in relationship reason behind lack of balance between in Personal and professional life but who is responsible for it whether it is the husband or wife working. Nobody can be blamed as today’s earning just get flew away from the pocket as soon as it enters.
The growing pressure of workplace in to exceed performance and raise of disappointment from the side of the family lack of time for them. EVERY one has trouble keeping personal and professional lives apart. We are human beings after all, and it is but natural that our personal and professional halves merge into one whole, in spite of our best efforts and intentions. The real problem arises only when one half starts hampering the effective functioning of the other. For example, when things are not going too well on the professional front, our work suffers.
Emotional maturity
One has to learn to be emotionally mature and not over react, to personal/ work situations and pressures. At work, understand that any criticism is probably not personal, but professional. You will be able to handle things better if you condition yourself to be professionally involved but emotionally detached, as far as your work is concerned. It is easier said than done though, if you happen to love your job; the trick is to identify yourself more with your profession and less with the company.
Worrying
Worrying is the problem of today’s man and it is eating away the happiness just adding sourness in the relationship and happiness. I would believe a worry depends on the need or wrong things done don’t we have control ourself to get trapped in those situation.
Be yourself
It is impossible for a person to change his personality and be one kind of person at home and a different one at the office; unless of course, he is putting on an act. It is important to be honest and truthful to yourself. It is even more important to be able to love and respect yourself for being you. Once you come across as an honest and straightforward person, people are likely to be more understanding and less interrogative.
Spot solution
People often make the mistake of putting off important decisions. When there are a multitude of problems, we tend to simultaneously dwell on all of them, worry about all of them, procrastinate about all of them but seldom make a decision, even on one of them. Take one problem at a time. Give priority to important and urgent problems.
By Priti Shah
The growing pressure of workplace in to exceed performance and raise of disappointment from the side of the family lack of time for them. EVERY one has trouble keeping personal and professional lives apart. We are human beings after all, and it is but natural that our personal and professional halves merge into one whole, in spite of our best efforts and intentions. The real problem arises only when one half starts hampering the effective functioning of the other. For example, when things are not going too well on the professional front, our work suffers.
Emotional maturity
One has to learn to be emotionally mature and not over react, to personal/ work situations and pressures. At work, understand that any criticism is probably not personal, but professional. You will be able to handle things better if you condition yourself to be professionally involved but emotionally detached, as far as your work is concerned. It is easier said than done though, if you happen to love your job; the trick is to identify yourself more with your profession and less with the company.
Worrying
Worrying is the problem of today’s man and it is eating away the happiness just adding sourness in the relationship and happiness. I would believe a worry depends on the need or wrong things done don’t we have control ourself to get trapped in those situation.
Be yourself
It is impossible for a person to change his personality and be one kind of person at home and a different one at the office; unless of course, he is putting on an act. It is important to be honest and truthful to yourself. It is even more important to be able to love and respect yourself for being you. Once you come across as an honest and straightforward person, people are likely to be more understanding and less interrogative.
Spot solution
People often make the mistake of putting off important decisions. When there are a multitude of problems, we tend to simultaneously dwell on all of them, worry about all of them, procrastinate about all of them but seldom make a decision, even on one of them. Take one problem at a time. Give priority to important and urgent problems.
By Priti Shah