Is Fighting Really Good For Your Relationship?

[sunandaC]

A very common phenomenon that we hear among couples or else normally also, and the saying is "the more fights you have, the more close and impact your relationship becomes." The question is whether this is actually true, do fights in a relationship really strenghten the relationship betweent the two, or else does it loosens the thread of their relationship.Continuous fighting in a relationship could show signs of it breaking apart. Take for example someone - say a girl . She was perennially angry with her boyfriend. The otherwise docile, sweet girl turned into Miss Crazy. She would fling things at him, scream at the top of her voice. He brought out the worst in her, and she could not help but behave the way she did. It was out of control. After much counselling, she decided to give him the boot; and needless to say, she is back to her happy self again.
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[anilrajblr]

It is not the fighting which does this, but conflict is good. This brings out what is causing it? and how some body should go about it.

 

[sunandaC]

It is not the fighting which does this, but conflict is good. This brings out what is causing it? and how some body should go about it.

Are conflicts the only solution to know the cause of disagreement between the two. A general talk over the terms that are conflicting rather than an actual conflict can be a excellent thing to handle the situation effectively. But the question do individuals possess cool and calm mind along with paitience to implement solution.

 

[jitenmazee]

Yes i also heard that when two people fights more that mean they love too each other. But matter is that the cause of the fighting, if the reason is small and couples fight on small topics then its OK but it can be bad for any relationship when reason is very big and not able to understood by both.