Arranged or Love Marrage ???

dpka said:
all d best vishal... hope u find someone soon..... n dont 4get 2 invite us on 'D' day!!!!

yeah pakkaa...chal meet ya in colg soon...ha....n u workin for fantasies...ne dept? oh gosh wht am i doin..wrong thread....pm chat..lol
 
naah... wen selection 4 fantasies was goin on, v had our exams... dunno whom2 approch now.... hope 2 c u in colg.... hopefully with someone! lol!
 
hey really this thread can b ended .n that too it ll end in love marriage if every 1 folows this 5factors

understaning...trust.....adjustment...Space.....Lo ve love love and lots of love....


if u think its true then go for it i thnk its correct ....
 
Love marriage....as the love before marriage is a lifetime thing. After marriage it's probably same in both cases.....doesn't make much of a difference.


kartik said:
But they atleast have a story.

I have experienced it. we brokeup just a couple of weeks back .. but i am happy that it happened and we were happy for 5 yrs.

So I would say love marriage, even if it doesnt have a happy ending, the journey is sweet and sour and life is fun ;)
 
i think a person should try to adjust with the relation coz u do love marrage os arrange disputs r goin to take place.
so at times compromise is the best option for the relation .
 
I think all the 25 replies above conclude the same fact, that adjustment is the key word. Love/arranged doesnt matter here. Hence, i think we can conclude the debate, as there is no potentially varying answer here.
 
love marriage is d best ..... u knoe a person b4 marriage 4 many years n den taking a decision which u wont regret is sumtin u wud cherish all ur life....
 
arrange marage of cource... love is always blind. So i would never fall into the evils of love

Trust me on this one.. give it a try..

Ofcourse you would first and foremost need a girl who has the same feelings for that :p
 
ya...i think the trust on the partner is important even than love...

well.....ummmmmmmmmmmmmmm.... love marraige i guess (wen i c my parents fight)!!! n arrange marraige, i guess (wen i c them resolve d fights n still stick 2 each other)

as dpka said, when i see my parents fight...i think love marriage is better...

but when i see my friends' experiences in love, then i think arrange marriage is the best...

but out of this, more important is the trust between the two...that will give happy life to u over the lifetime.....

SUCCESS OF A MARRIAGE DOES NOT MERELY DEPEND ON "FINDING THE RITE MATE"....................................BUT MAJORLY THRU " BEING THE RITE MATE".....................

as pallavi said above, i'm agree with her............. it's important to being the right mate............................

Successfull love marrage or arrange marrages...or LIVEIN Relationship...last only on 5 factors...(ie)
understaning...trust.....adjustment...Space.....Love love love and lots of love....

as above posted by ROZA...............it's important to make happy your life with your spouse by considering 5 factors above... in which TRUST, ADJUSTMENT & LOVE are most 3 important factors to make ur life lovely & happy...........

BEST OF LUCK TO ALL OF YOU IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS WITH YOUR SPOUSE !!!

MAY IT LIVE LONG ! FOREVER !!!
 
well all that is true.. but d question is that adjustments n compromises r taken care of if ur in love... now ts one's decidon as 2 wud he like 2 find love n den marry or mary n find love in that person. i guess all wud prefer d 1st case....
 
i would anyday go for an arranged marriage!!!

arranged marriages are fun!!!!......an adventure....a challenge
everyday opens a new chapter in the life of the two people concerned
you dont know each other.....n it gets exciting to find out stuff about each other
there are no expectations....you accept each other with all the strenghts and weaknesses
you can never get bored in an arranged marriage!!!!
everything is so new and exciting....no matter whether its good or ugly.....you are ready for anything!!!!

love marriages are........BORING!!!!
 
hey miss too cute lovely yaar i liked the way u presented arrainge marraige but i cant help it im doin love marraige n ill face all those exciting things after my marraige n for me im sure it ll not b boring ..
 
too cute said:
i would anyday go for an arranged marriage!!!

arranged marriages are fun!!!!......an adventure....a challenge
everyday opens a new chapter in the life of the two people concerned
you dont know each other.....n it gets exciting to find out stuff about each other
there are no expectations....you accept each other with all the strenghts and weaknesses
you can never get bored in an arranged marriage!!!!
everything is so new and exciting....no matter whether its good or ugly.....you are ready for anything!!!!

love marriages are........BORING!!!!

Only people who are either too heartless to experience love, or too goddamn ugly can say things like that :tongue: :aj:

Oh wait, it's Tanu....ah, that explains it!! :aj1: :aj:
 
Only people who are either too heartless to experience love, or too goddamn ugly can say things like that :tongue: :aj:

Oh wait, it's Tanu....ah, that explains it!! :aj1:

And so the AJ VANI BEGINS again ...

This is gona be one hell of a BIG FIGHT :aj1:
 
gaurav200x said:
Oh well, i can't just wait for it to start....... Ab ayega mazza..... :aj1:

wah ....ab hui na baat......ab wapi maza ayega MP pe........tanu v/s a.j........

THE BATTLE BEGINS AGAIN................:SugarwareZ-191:
 
i thought it was love marraige vs arranged marraige........ now wats so interestin here????? ill b waitin 4 more responses....
 
dpka said:
i thought it was love marraige vs arranged marraige........ now wats so interestin here????? ill b waitin 4 more responses....
lolz.... had u been here a couple of months earlier u would have witnessed the greatest battle in the history of management paradise..... called AJ vs too_cute :becky:
 
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