spouse age

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gudipudiswaroop

Swaroop Gudipudi
hey, this is a general query in India why spouse(wife) age should be less than husband.....

which one will you prefer elder or younger wife and y? justify...........
 
i prefer elder wife, bcoz an elder wife means shez mature enough to understand husband decisions, emotions..........

she can trace husband thoughts n his way of thinking.............

so, den a mutual undrstndg results, which forms a root for long standing relation..........

marriage stands on the basis of understanding....... n i think its more possible wid da above assumption..............

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it's just a stupid belief.... like one of the billions of beliefs
elder/younger doesn't really matter, what matters is who you like and what is even more important is who likes you...
 
to me... age is not a factor,, as long as there exists a good understanding b/n each othr.... even, v cant xpect eldr to b more mature or othrwise..... if datz the case, every one gettin married at the age of 30+ must b leading very happy lyf.... nd also, i dnt xpect girls 2 wait dat long.... aftr 22, generally marriage trials wil strt in every girlz house....
 
we can't justify that an elder girl can have the capability of aspects like knowledge,maturity....it definitely depends on the way she thinks we have many cases
1) If at all the girl is an educated one she definitely thinks the +ve and the -ve aspects in every work she does.
2)If a girl is not much educated she too may have good knowledge about the family values but she w'd rather be poor in technical or knowledge base activities but she definitely cares her family

here the problem is how she behaves with the husband....no matter shez an educated or the other.....

some husbands argue that "my wife is well educated so its becoming a headache to make a decision in my business as my wife's thoughts does'nt correlate my thoughts"

on the other side some argue that "my wife is a perfect analizer we both discuss the issues and make a perfect decision"

I definitely opine that "an elder girl has a high definitions of knowledge so she can understand every problem i have"

it may be true in some or many cases but not always......

The perfect communication b/w husband and wife describes how they are.....the more u get interacted with ur wife the more happy u are........
 
@all

evry thing is fair in love bt wat i dnt undrstnd frm our society is, y our society dnt accept elder wives assumption....

see any matrimony matches are made wid spouse young in age, y? der must b sm reasn....

though mythologicaly rama n sita is an example bt still atleast dis hindu society dnt accept it n many even dnt prefer it.....y?



kool guys dis s a kool topic give ur very cool views.........


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ya it's our indian culture which says that marriages must be made for a man @ around 25-30 nd woman 21-25....truly speakin....these are considered to be the wright ages for human feelings to explode and is considered to be wright for childbirths.....

And in our customs and traditions our elders say that the bride must be lesser in age then bridegroom...this is bcoz if the ages of bride nd bridegroom are almost the same....there may be irrelavent probs with the childbirths...i mean the child may be genetically improper with the senses etc...so they say that bride must be lesser in age compared to bridegroom...
 
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