NEW LOVE : TO SHRINK AFTER THE FIRST WASH

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Rahul Parab
NEW LOVE : TO SHRINK AFTER THE FIRST WASH

New age relationships of many teenagers are heading for the shrink’s couch. Malhar recently had a counseling session. The films Pyaar Ke Side Effects & Karan Johar’s Kabhi Alvida Naa Kehna…has been made on the subject.

What’s ur thinking about this? Reply guyz…
 
Today, boys and girls get into a relationship not because of love but because of their need for a partner. A partner who you can take out to movies and parties…a partner to hang out with in the college premises. It’s cool to have a partner of the opposite sex. Not having a girl friend or boy friend hits their self-esteem.

Most of the time, it is this need that rules the courting game around the city colleges. Adolescent relationships are unlikely to survive beyond college as the youth are rarely looking for a long-term relationship. Such relationships often don’t even survive through college and it is normal to ditch and patch up.

Not giving enough time to each other and attitude differences r the most common reasons why these relationships end. They r pretty sure that the relationship will never end in marriage & just want to have a good time. While boys search for good looks, wit and humour in a girl & favour long-term relationships, girls r eyeing smart boys with a handsome pocket money.

A disturbing trend among the youth is the concept of open relationship. According to them, an open relationship is when u r dating someone while being engaged to another. They r ready to try out new partners while going on with current flame.


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Its all about perception and attitude.

A disturbing trend among the youth is the concept of open relationship. According to them, an open relationship is when u r dating someone while being engaged to another. They r ready to try out new partners while going on with current flame.

I might be of the opinion that this kind of behaviour sucks but some person who thinks he is open minded might say I am orthodox.

Its all about the kind of group you are in for most of your time period. And its quite obvious that people with whom you interact the most will influence your perception.

As far as you and your partner have the same perception and attitude of things and are able to give time to your relationship. . " its all KEWL "
 
I dont think the comment can be generalised @Rahul

Yes, this attitude is there amongst people... but there are many, who are lookng for a committed relationship...

Its all how u take the relationship.. Its not a piece of cake... but if u wish, u can mould it in the way u like with a pinch of patience, handful of care, some understanding and lots of love ;)
 
To each is own... if someone is fine with one night stands so be it... if someone wants commitment, his wish....
the point is we can't generalise and force our version on anyone else or judge them... each person is unique and wants diff things from his/her relationships
 
true tht a gen. statement cant be made coz each n eevry1 is diff. n every1s level of maturity is diff.
teenagers get attracted n since its kinda "trend" now 2 hv a bf\gf..get into relations n 1nce they get bored ..break off.....
if youngsters are mature enough to understand true love and the meaning of relations..it could work out well...[which is mostly nt the case]and then abt
open relationship as rahul had mentioned, it depends from person 2 person....their thoughts and views....
 
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