Do i Love ???

blookerilian

blookerilian

Someone... Alive...
Hi, Guys after living 23 years of happy Life finally i become a latest target of so called Cupid. i was a guy who always make fun of others & always ready with millions of ideas for defending my views. i was a jerk who thinks Girls are only for Flirt & Forget. but just three days back on 17th September 2009 when i was returning home from College i became a different man. i had no interest in guys gossips, Girls & Dirty Talks. even i formatted my 2 TB Collection of Porn Movies from my HD's... i haven't slept well frm two days and m listening so called "Aashiq Chaap" Songs... & u knw what Guys i don't knw what is in her mind. i just had a formal introduction with her and nw i am losing in dreams of starting a idol family with her... So Funny isn't it!!! i knw it is funny but it happens. Now i can't share this present situation with any of my local friend coz i made enough fun of them in these matters so they'll never take this seriously & tries to fly away somewhere. Now i am very very Confused and looking for some guidelines from you. should i walk on the Path that Cupid shows me? i afraid the one who teaches others will not become just another example... Do Some one like me have a Right to Love ????

Someone... Please... Help ?????????????

Girls Sorry for ma previous views abt you but it was just that what it was. Now i am a """Accha Baccha""" so please come ahead & give mr your opinions.
 
Quite Funny!!

Firstly m wondering this shud have been discussed in the general talks forum...but people here might have contrasting views for your case so chances it can turn into a debate topic.

As per me..this is a clear case of infatuation...u said just had a formal intro with her..dont know her as a person..

dude its a case of a relationship..i have known guys for whom its just a matter of fun...and this is damning...and here u urself have mentioned u dint support this in the past...if ur views has changed all of a sudden..having passed sme time with her..it may take sme new direction again...wud suggest.. think deeply...dont go for an experimentation..u may leave her hurt...she may loose trust in relationshps forever...i hope u wudnot want this to happen to anyone... and I dont feel u need to take a public opinion...ask urself..retrospect..u r mature enough to take a call.

no offence intended..excuse me...goodluck!
 
Thankyou for ur valuable advice & light u spot on to matter but i wanna tell u one thing that i mentioned a person known to be cupid in first sentence which cast a spell to idiots like me (i read it in some books and also in Disney cartoons when i was a kid) so I AM ALSO VERY MUCH UNAWARE & SHOCKING ABOUT WHY IS THIS HAPPENING TO ME ??? i am not doing experimentation and i am serious first time in ma entire life about these matters. i know the Trait of good Social Networking and Starting up Living Relationships but believe me i am going to present myself as what i am and i'll never hide anything from her. final approval stamp is with her i just have to be shown up with a application. The question is this .... Should i appear with that application or Not ??? Please answer in one word ie "YES or NO"

I'll be really thankful to all of you for suggesting good problem solving techniques which are must for administrator level managers..... :)
 
hey according to me luv is the most beautiful feeling,now wat eva u used to b n wat nt thinks u did,dosnt matter at ths point of time wen u hav changed "achha bachha"......go ahead dude..green signal...
 
Kalpana Heliya said:
As per me..this is a clear case of infatuation...u said just had a formal intro with her..dont know her as a person..

dude its a case of a relationship..i have known guys for whom its just a matter of fun...and this is damning...and here u urself have mentioned u dint support this in the past...if ur views has changed all of a sudden..having passed sme time with her..it may take sme new direction again...wud suggest.. think deeply...dont go for an experimentation..u may leave her hurt...she may loose trust in relationshps forever...i hope u wudnot want this to happen to anyone... and I dont feel u need to take a public opinion...ask urself..retrospect..u r mature enough to take a call.

no offence intended..excuse me...goodluck!
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No words to say anymore as i completely agree with her & so should everyone.
If you handle your relationship sincerely then only you are eligible for this title of Acha Bacha otherwise dont think you are in love and have become cupid. Its your first time so i said all this considering your past which cant be ignored.
Buddy, its a true fact, time doesnt change with people but mostly people change with time. So firstly, give your relationship some time, see how things go between you both and then give yourself a title.
Dont become too possessive about her, concenterate on your studies/career as it should be your first priority rather than becoming a cupid.
Remember - Dont break her heart.
Its simply infatuation as of now. Good Luck.
 
worry about getting your own heart broken too...women have been known to do that.

agree with the folks who say its infatuation - that is blatantly obvious. whether you will actually learn to love depends on the future course of events.

"There is a tide in the affairs of men, which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune."
 (no, the quote isn't mine, but if anyone here can identify it without help from google, i would be rather impressed)
 
Cat Xavi said:
worry about getting your own heart broken too...women have been known to do that.

agree with the folks who say its infatuation - that is blatantly obvious. whether you will actually learn to love depends on the future course of events.

"There is a tide in the affairs of men, which, taken at the flood, leads on to fortune."
 (no, the quote isn't mine, but if anyone here can identify it without help from google, i would be rather impressed)
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OMG... r u frm chd ? i think i got a reply from an old school nut.... the line is frm our 9th std play JS.. me too frm xaviers 44... :) anyway thanx 4 ur opinion but now the Scene is little changed... now we knw each other little more. She is very Charming & beautiful girl. She have a good sense of humor and the major point is She's a Beauty with Brains... She is ma little Kid... but now m afraid to loose her... u knw wat... whenever i go near to her i behave like an idiot, Fool, Dumbo n so so... & right after she leaves i return to my attentive state and with lots of question to ma self that what is wrong going on with me.... why i can't even implement the first step of my plan that i made after hrs of thinking on night ??? any suggestion buddy ???
 
blookerilian said:
OMG... r u frm chd ? i think i got a reply from an old school nut.... the line is frm our 9th std play JS.. me too frm xaviers 44... :) anyway thanx 4 ur opinion but now the Scene is little changed... now we knw each other little more. She is very Charming & beautiful girl. She have a good sense of humor and the major point is She's a Beauty with Brains... She is ma little Kid... but now m afraid to loose her... u knw wat... whenever i go near to her i behave like an idiot, Fool, Dumbo n so so... & right after she leaves i return to my attentive state and with lots of question to ma self that what is wrong going on with me.... why i can't even implement the first step of my plan that i made after hrs of thinking on night ??? any suggestion buddy ???
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No, not chd; I'm from Goa. Do you mean JS or JC?

Behaving like an idiot in front of the object of one's affection is the most obvious symptom of infatuation and very difficult to avoid. You'll just have to figure out some way to be more normal in her presence. Try to engage with her at an intellectual level or something. And don't 'plan' on how you will talk to her - that sorta thing never works out. Try to enjoy the flow.
 
Cat Xavi said:
No, not chd; I'm from Goa. Do you mean JS or JC?

Behaving like an idiot in front of the object of one's affection is the most obvious symptom of infatuation and very difficult to avoid. You'll just have to figure out some way to be more normal in her presence. Try to engage with her at an intellectual level or something. And don't 'plan' on how you will talk to her - that sorta thing never works out. Try to enjoy the flow.
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( Oh! God Help! M behaving like another Screwed Nerd)

Cathy dear, Sorry for reacting little over which i knw will appear to be very funny for you but i wanna let you knw that She isn't an Object... at least not for me so i couldn't resist of zipping up ma lips.... & yup thanks for pointing out Mr. Caesar's Spelling... it's another proof that m a Qualified Fool wherever she is involved.... Now holidays r going on so i can't approach to her conveniently but as per now i stopped Planning anything as u advised me n' m feeling quite relaxed but as well as m worried of not doing anything about the maximum serious matter of ma relations... What to consider ?? n yup you advised to figuring out some way to be more normal in her presence n i couldn't get through any.... will you Please Suggest me one???
 
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