constructive

Sometimes a person is not the best judge of one’s own self. He is unable to look all that which is bad or wrong in him. Thus, since he is unable to assess his wrongs, he is never able to correct them.

The Constructive Confrontation Cycle. One of the best advices given by Henry Cloud: Go hard on the issue & soft on the person. In other words, when you need to confront a staff member, bring to the table both your high work expectations & standards & a sympathetic ear. Focus on what you want to...