Is boarding school beneficial to children?

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Ankit Gokani
Is boarding school beneficial to children?

guys over here many among us have been sent to boarding and many haven't been sent at all...........so what u think should children be sent to boarding or no...............?????????????????????
 
Parents send their children to boarding school when its not feasible for them to take care of their child or when the child is failing in studies so that they feel putting the child in a boarding school will make them better.Boarding school has its own postives and negatives.The child will grow in the atmosphere of ppl like them.So this makes them to learn about the co-operation,competition.But they miss their parents love at a time when they need it the most.Children become more responsible when they know what they need to do and when they take care of their activities.Those habits make them self-dependant but speaking from emotional point of view they don't enjoy those benefits when they can enjoy them.So my take on this topic would be it depends on the individual basis.There are examples where a child has grown better in a boarding school and a lot more examples where the other case also has happened.

-Deepak.
 
boasrding school are not gud for children , unless n untill if parents hav some serious issue...just sending dem to boarding school for better education is not gud enuf...in case of ppl living in villages ...the case is justified........
 
hey friends.... give maximum opinion on this coz my son is at the age where i have to think where he should study... so pls pls give me the details of good boarding school. and also keep this thread alive by posting with suggstion.. thnx friends...
 
acc to me....no child sud be send to boarding school..unless sum serious issues b/w parents like divorce or single parent exist........

sending him just to discipline him is bullshit.................
 
Good question. Highly debatable, but I will share views of mine and atleast a 100 others with whom I studied for 9 years at Sanawar.

Send your kids to Boarding schools in South, like Lovedale etc. In sanawar you will find only dumb kin of bull working farmers.

Within a month of joining in Sanawar.. you will begin to speak like a rickshawpuller or a road side urchin. Within 4-5 months you will compeletely lose touch with education and spend all your time cleaning the school premises with your fellow mates.. at the end of the day .. you get food that even your well groomed pet dog will refuse to eat.. now you can imagine where all the millions we pay pay as fees is going..?? being eaten away some governing body corrupt people.. and the woes go on..
 
boarding is some wht helpful,,,,,,,,,,in boarding d child comes to know d value of parents ......they come to know about d surrounding........dey prepare themselves to tackle d situation after coming on public platform.......but dis is not obvious for all child.....its depends how dey learn
 
Boarding School can be the best thing that can happen to a child if the choice of the school is good.
-They learn to be independant
-They learn to respect relationships after staying away from their close ones.
-They learn to interact with people from diverse background and communities.
-They learn the soft skills alongwith the necessary education.
-They tend to learn all the games and sports
-More importantly they learn to participate in events and even organize them.
_They are not shy of anything.
 
I don't aggree, It really depend on the kid. The top boarding schools can be excellent for very mature kids who need more than their local schools offer academically and socially. The schools know who will benefit, so chances are if your kid can get in, they will thrive.
 
boarding makes children away from their parents. hence the affection between parents and children lacks here. i will say that boarding schools are not good.........
 
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I have studied in a boarding school since Class III.
I went to christian missionary schools in Darjeeling and Mussoorie.
They are not very expensive like the top league boarding schools but they are committed to making you an independant and selfless person.

I too stayed away from my parents and I was the only son.
I respect my parents more now. Every small holiday, I go back to them even after my marriage alongwith my Kids and Wife. So its not true that the bond between parents and the child decreases.

Children can be moulded but only upto a certain age. This age is coming down quickly. If you keep your children for a long time with you and then send them to a boarding school then definitely they would not be moulded much by the school.

So, to get the best out of a boarding school the child should be admitted by Class V.
 
like evry coin has 2 sides.....sending children to boarding has its pros n cons....

children become independent....their decision making skills improves....etc....

bt most of d tym children gt detached frm their family....:SugarwareZ-218:
 
According to me no boarding school is not beneficial to children this is because the way children are nourished and enhance in the care of parents that doesn't happen in boarding schools. Atleast there is a vigilance kept by parents all the time what the children are doing.
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ankitgokani said:
Is boarding school beneficial to children?

guys over here many among us have been sent to boarding and many haven't been sent at all...........so what u think should children be sent to boarding or no...............?????????????????????
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its good upto a certain extent as kids leard to be self dependent. they learn how to do all their work themselves
 
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